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W – #AtoZChallenge on Mental Health

Welcome to the Letter W post in the #AtoZChallenge on mental health. This was a hard letter. In fact, up till a few days ago, I could only think of one word for it. I have however managed to think of a few more words.

Wellness Recovery Action Plan® (WRAP®)

The Wellness Recovery Action Plan® is a plan that people with mental illness use to regain their wellness if they’ve endured a distressing experience that might otherwise destabilize them. WRAP® was developed in the United States by Mary Ellen Copeland, who herself suffered from severe mental illness. It is rooted in the recovery model of mental illness. WRAP® focuses on people’s strengths rather than their deficits. However, it does include a crisis plan too. This crisis plan or advance directive is written by the patient themself and lets others know when they need to take responsibility for the patient’s care. This allows the patient to stay in control even when they can no longer make decisions for themself. I found the interesting part was also the post-crisis plan, which is meant to reflect on ways to regain wellness and prevent another crisis. In traditional crisis plans, people are not taken care of after crises and their original plan is not revised.

Willpower

Of course, mental illness is not a choice. However, recovery is. It is often believed that willpower is the power to get over all one’s emotional or behavioral struggles, to be cured of one’s mental illness or addiction. I discussed willpower from a spiritual perspective a few months ago. In this light, willpower is the will to turn over one’s life to God (or another power greater than oneself). In the recovery movement, willpower is the will to take back control over one’s life in spite of mental illness. This might seem completely contradictory to the twelve-step view of willpower, ie. turning one’s life over to God. I see the two as peacefully co-existing. Allowing God to guide us on our journey, after all, does not mean we are not as humans responsible for the decsions we make.

Work-Out

Exercise is often thougth to greatly help with mental health. People who are depressed often benefit from getting moving. People with severe mental illness might use exercise, even if it does not cure their illness, to get into a daily or weekly rhythm.

Willpower

I am a member of a few general recovery groups on Facebook. Most of the members are addicts or alcoholics. I am not. I consider myself addicted to food in some ways, but it isn’t like I can just stop eating, like an addict can quit their substance of abuse. I’m not saying that’s easy either. That’s my point of this post.

Most recovery groups are based on some twelve-step model. As such, we see a lot of references to a higher power or God in the posts. One that I came across recently was that we have to redefine willpower. Willpower is the will to turn over the reigns of our life to God.

I like this statement. It doesn’t mean we don’t have to attempt abstinence (or in the case of an eating disorder, balance). We do still need to refrain from engaging in addictive behaviors. The difference is, God is guiding us on our journeys. If we turn over the reigns of our life to God, we are realizing that we need to follow His lead, not the road of addiction.

I am a person who often turns over the reigns of her life to other people. I allow others to make decisions for me and in some ways, I’d like them to make the decision that I can’t have binge food, too. Staff won’t do this, as I’m an adult and responsible for my own recovery. My husband sometimes gets me a small bag of candy when I’d intended on eating a far larger quantity. This may lessen the physical effects of a binge, but it still means I engage in compulsive eating.

The first step of Overeaters Anonymous is to say we’re powerless over food. (The same statement is used in Alcoholics Anonymous and Narcotics Anonymous, with “alcohol” or “drugs” instead of “food”.) Therefore, we need to find a power greater than ourselves to help us recover from our addiction. Note that this higher power doesn’t necessarily have to be God: for atheists and agnostics, it can be the OA group they participate in. This signifies that, while no-one is taking responsibility for another’s choices, it is the guidance of our higher power, be it God or the group, that leads us into recovery. Even as believers, we believe that we have free will, but we can still turn the reigns of our life over to God. If we do this, we learn to rely on Him for paving the way for us into recovery. It isn’t that we are no longer ourselves in recovery or not, but we rely on God for facilitating our process of recovery.

I am nowhere near recovering, as regular readers of this blog know. My last binge was last Friday, and I was tempted to give in again today. I didn’t, which is a small win, and my thoughts on willpower contributed to that. I realized that God doesn’t want me to binge, and He gives me the means to resist the urge. Today, I was led to write this post instead of binge. It may sound like I don’t practise what I preach, as someone who’s still pretty deep in her eating disorder, but it personally helps me to preach recovery.