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Home: Describing My Dream House #AtoZChallenge

Welcome to the #AtoZChallenge of random reflections, day 8. While on the phone with my sister today, we were talking house hunting and the A to Z Challenge and she suggested I pick this as my word for my letter H post. That’s a fabulous idea! For today’s post, I’m going to describe my dream house.

First, I’m going to describe my dream house in a mostly realistic way. In other words, I’m going to describe a house we will likely be able to afford in the foreseeable future. I did a post describing my dream house on an old version of my Dutch blog several years ago. Then, my husband and I still lived in a second-floor apartment. Well, I didn’t live there, as I was institutionalized, but I did pay part of the rent and intended on moving in there sometime. I never did.

I mentioned three things my dream house would have. These were a garden, a room just for me to be my office and a bath. I have two of these things in my current house: the garden and a larger office than I imagined back then. However, by contrast, my husband’s office is really small. In my dream house now, there would be three bedrooms like in our current house, but their size would be more evenly distributed. I, after all, could do with a somewhat smaller office while my husband deserves a larger one.

My husband would like our house to be at most the size of our current house to save on cleaning. He once said he’d like a larger garden, but I’m not sure he still wants this. I want a garden big enough to plant some berry bushes and an apple tree or two in, but I don’t need a lot of space.

The kitchen would be larger and/or more efficiently modeled than our current one. And yes, there’d be a bath in the bathroom. Or there’d at least be the possibility of remodeling the bathroom so that a bath can be placed there. I know this is the least likely wish to come true.

Now as for my dream house if I won several millions of euros in the lottery. In addition to all the things my “realistic” dream house would have, there’d be an additional fourth bedroom that I would model (or have someone else model!) to be a sensory room. It’d have a waterbed in it and lots of tactile and audible sensory materials. Because with the upstairs having four bedrooms, there’d be more room downstairs too, so I’d create a gym room with a large trampoline in it. I’d also like a pool. My husband would of course get a large garage.

What does your dream house look like?,?P>

Top Ten Plans for This Summer

It’s (almost) summertime. The weather has been quite good here lately. Particularly last week, the weather was lovely. This week, it’s getting slightly cooler and we’ve had some rain. However, the weather is still good enough to be outside in a T-shirt without a jacket. That’s one thing I love about spring and summer.

One of Mama’s Losin’ It’s prompts for this week is to share your top ten summer plans. I am really looking forward to this summer and I’d love to share my plans with you. Many are the same as last year’s, but unlike then, I did already make some of my plans happen.


  1. Go swimming. This is one of the items on last year’s bucke tlist that I couldn’t cross off then. This year, I’m participatng in a four-day swimming event this very week. I’m swimming only 100 meters each day, which is the shortest distance you could do. So far, I’ve completed two days of the event, that is really five days, already. You only need to complete four out of five days for the medal, but I plan on swimming each day.

  2. Have a barbecue. This is on last year’s list too. I didn’t think that I’d make this year’s barbecue on the institution unit, but now I think I will. It hasn’t been planned yet, but I heard the head nurse say she was going to get the DJ we have each year booked again.

  3. Sit in the garden. My home garden this time. I didn’t know last year of course that this year I’d have a real garden at home. The unit garden is also going to get remodeled soon.

  4. Eat strawberries, blackberries, blackcurrants, etc. I got raspberries from the market last week, but we don’t have them in the garden. The shrub my husband bought died before we could plant it. We do have many other berries, however. I don’t know how well they’ll do their first year, but I already ate a strawberry out of our garden last week.
  5. Go for walks. I walked form our old apartment to the institution a few times last year. This year, our walks have been in the tiny village. I hope to go to the woods sometime this summer too.

  6. Spend time with family. I’ve got to have an item on the list that I didn’t have last year. My sister and my parents are both coming over to our home next week (if my sister can get the day off) to celebrate my birthday.

  7. Eat the head nurse’s French fries and/or macaroni. There’s a nurse who lives in Turkey most of the year who comes over to work at our unit for the summers. It’s a tradition that she and the head nurse make macaroni from scratch once each year. It doesn’t sound that special, I know, but for people who normally get microwave meals everyday, it is. I’ve also heard the head nurse has plans for making us French fries on a Sunday in July. She makes fries about once a month, but usually on Saturdays, when I’m home.

  8. Wear my new dress. I already wore a skirt several times this year. I also bought two new dresses, one of which I already wore. I want to wear the other one too.

  9. Do lots of reading. This was one of the things I didn’t do enough of last year, even though I could. This year, it’s even easier, since I finally got a full Bookshare membership. I plan on reading a few books that I’ve wanted to read forever but never got down to buying as eBooks. Not that I couldn’t have bought them as eBooks, but I was planning on getting a Bookshare membership all along and so delayed getting the books. Reading books in DAISY format is still easier than reading eBooks. Of course, getting them from Bookshare, which is like a library for print disabled people, is cheaper too. I will review the books that I read here too.

  10. Write. I haven’t been blogging here as much as I’d like to this month or last month. After all, I’ve been feeling pretty uninspired. I hope to be inspired soon.


What are your plans for this summer?

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