Category Archives: Quotes

Wayne Dyer Quotes #MondayMusings

Wayne Dyer, a well-known self-help guru, passed away last Saturday. I first heard about his work in like 2003, when the Dutch translation of one of his books was published. I can’t be sure what year it was or what the book was called, as I can’t find it on GoodReads.

Several years later, when I was interested in the Unity movement, I found out Dyer was a supporter. Unity is an offshoot from Christianity that sees Heaven and Hell as metaphysical states of being and encourages people to be Christ-like in order to enter Heaven. Heaven is seen as similar to the Buddhist Nirvana. I was only briefly into Unity, as I soon lost interest in religion. I sitll support some of Unity’s beliefs, but prefer to associate more with mainline Christianity.

Never having read any of Dyer’s books, I cannot be sure I agree with his views, but I like to use quotes as starting points for my thinking and writing. In this post, I will share a couple quotes atributed to Dyner, plus some of my own thoughts.

1. “How people treat you is their karma; how you react is yours.” Thos one reflects Dyer’s involvement with the Unity movement, as it refers to karma. I don’t believe in karma in the Buddhist sense of the word. Like, if you endure tragedy, it’s sometimes thought to be because of mishaps in your past life. I won’t swallow that. I do, however, agree that the way people treat others says more about them than about the people they treat badly, and that it is best to respond to hostility with kindness. That will reflect back on you, making you the wiser in the interaction.

2. “Friends are God’s way of apologizing for your family.” LOL. I just found this one funny, but it also resonates with me. You choose your friends, after all, not your family.

3. “With everything that has happened to you, you can either feel sorry for yourself or treat what has happened as a gift. Everything is either an opportunity to grow or an obstacle to keep you from growing. You get to choose.” This one is very true. We don’t get to choose some of our life experiences, but we do get to choose how we handle them. It may sometimes seem like I choose to feel sorry for myself when I write about my life experiences. Writing, however, is my way of transforming these experiences into an opportunity for growth.

4. “You are not stuck where you are unless you decide to be.” Though change is inevitable in life, this quote shows all the more that standing still means going backwards. Also, it shows us that we can decide to move forward, even if it is with tiny steps, every single day. I need to practise what I preach here, as I have not been reaching my goals for a few months, and didn’t even set any for August.

5. “When the choice is to be right or to be kind, always make the choice that brings peace.” I tend to be quite an argumentative person when it comes to getting my point across. Sometimes this helps, but sometimes, I need to remember what my father at one point told me: “I don’t need to be told I’m right to know I’m right.”


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Healing Quotes: Looking Fear in the Face

“You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You are able to say to yourself, ‘I have lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along.’ You must do the thing you think you cannot do.” – Eleanor Roosevelt

We are often afraid of what the future might hold. At least I am. Today, I don’t feel like taking the leap and preparing for living with my husband at all. I’d rather choose stability, even though ultimately, standing still means going backwards in life.

When I look back at my life, I often tend to look at my life experiences with a level of sadness or anger. How much more will life hand me, if I’ve already been through this?

Another way of looking at it is, I’ve been through it and survived. This means I am strong. If I’ve been able to handle what I have, why won’t I be able to handle the next hurdle in life?

Another thing is, of course, that uncertainty is scary, but without taking risks, we won’t go forward, and without going forward, we slide backward. I believe I read it in this book I mentioned of poems by a rape survivor, but not sure. Wherever I read it, I read that there are generally two kinds of people in life: those who warn you about all the risks of following your dreams, and those who encourage you to take the chances that following your dreams will present you with.

I have generally been trying to stay on the safe side, not taking risks but thereby not taking chances either. A few of the chances and risks I took, have not turned out well. For example, I went to university in 2007 and fell flat on my face. Then again, does that mean that taking chances and risks is altogether bad?

I took the chance and the risk of transferring from the city institution to my current small town institution. It hasn’t been an altogether good choice, but opportunities have arosen from my taking this chance/risk too. For example, day activities are generally better here than in the city institution.

I tend to choose stability over opportunity, but maybe that needs to change a bit. I’ve gone through a lot already and survived, so doesn’t this indicate that I am strong enough to handle the future?

Favorite Quotes #TuesdayTen

Today, Tuesday Ten is all about quotes. I love quotes. In this sense, I’m not lucky that most quotes today are shared as pictures on social media, although maybe I’m lucky not to get enough of them this way. I use quotes for jumpstarting my writing process sometimes. I also use quotes as part of my art journal pages, although I’ve not done one in a long while because I find it a nuisance to have to ask someone to print and cut out a quote for me.

art Joural Page

Today, I share ten of my favorite quotes, or more accurately, ten randomly assembled quotes I happened to come across and happen to like. I have attempted to make a good mixture between the inspirational and the funny.

  1. “Character cannot be developed in ease and quiet. Only through experience of trial and suffering can the soul be strengthened, ambition inspired, and success achieved.” – Helen Keller
  2. “You wouldn’t worry so much about what others think of you if you realized how seldom they do.” – Eleanor Roosevelt

  3. “Tact is the ability to tell someone to go to hell in such a way that they look forward to the trip.” – Winston Churchill

  4. “I love deadlines I love the whooshing noise they make as they go by.” – Douglas Adams

  5. “Reader, suppose you were an idiot. And suppose you were a member of Congress. But I repeat myself.” – Mark Twain

  6. “Lock up your libraries if you like; but there is no gate, no lock, no bolt that you can set upon the freedom of my mind.” – Virginia Woolf

  7. “I decided early in graduate school that I needed to do something about my moods. It quickly came down to a choice between seeing a psychiatrist or buying a horse. Since almost everyone I knew was seeing a psychiatrist, and since I had an absolute belief that I should be able to handle my own problems, I naturally bought a horse.” – Kay Redfield Jamison

  8. “There is within each one of us a potential for goodness beyond our imagining; for giving which seeks no reward; for listening without judgment; for loving unconditionally.” – Elisabeth Kübler-Ross

  9. “Out of your vulnerabilities will come your strength.” – Sigmund Freud

  10. “The greatest need that any child has is the need for unconditional love” – Brenda Boyd

That last one isn’t famous (although I bet the Redfield Jamison one isn’t famous to anyone not involved in mental health either), but I got it out of Parenting a Teen or Young Adult with Asperger Syndrome (Autistic Spectrum Disorder by Brenda Boyd. The quote, she says, came from her original publication in 2003.

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